Quick update - I may have found what works... maybe.
Today I dropped S4 off at W place since I had him this weekend. We traded cars this weekend because I fixed hers (which is actually mine) that needed some work. I told her this morning that it was all done and it seemed fine on the drive over.
I also remembered last night that she had said in the past that she didn't have any of the pictures we keep on an external drive. There are literally 5000 pictures and videos on there, so I copied them off to another drive and gave her the one we used this morning letting her know that everything was there she would need. She gave me a really big hug and said thank you. She then walked me out to my car and hugged me again and said ILY... then...
"I like the sweater you're wearing. It looks good on you."
Haven't heard anything like that in a while...
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch