Do you feel bullied? Be honest!

[MrBond]

I don't think alot of it was "forced" on the posters. Just some of the "vets" postings were "it's my way or the highway". There were also some times I've seen that they went beyond just being 2 x 4s and escalated into name calling, etc.

I think there was a point where this became more of the "how to bust your spouse's affair" rather than divorce busting. With things revolving the "action" of the affair rather than the reasons for why the affair happened, people seemed to become obsessed that once the affairs were done with, things would go right back to normal.