I'm still alive and well. I've been too busy to frequent the forums of late, but have my "spies" keeping me informed of anything of interest like this thread.

So... did I feel bullied? Nope.

I appreciated reading the perspectives of different people - both hardliners and what Puppy used to call "Bo Peeps." Just like all advice it is up the the reader to take what is applicable and APPLY it. Test the approach for a while and measure results. If it don't work toss it, if it does, do more.

Oh, and as for my R status... Fully reconciled and life is good.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT