Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

.........And asked- what is the first step to make this work?

Finally, effing finally. Her wall is coming down. Maybe she needed to hear I was going to guide us through this mess and that I WILL be there for her emtionally and phyically.


I paused a few moments and said~ The first step would be a committment to do the work, and the understanding that this will be more difficult than when she decided to leave.

I asked her to think about it and when she decides, to just simply say. "Im ready"

That's where we are now.