Thanks for the great advice. I do know that she is communicating with him.
I did ask her once about the OM and the texting and that is when she mentioned that he is just a friend, but that he was interested in her sexually.
Then he is NOT a "friend." What friend tells you they want to do you? Makes no sense.
As LONG as she is in contact w/ you it's totally inappropriate and something IS going on, despite what she tells you.
I would tell OM's W about what's going on. She has the right to know as well that her husband is telling another woman he wants to have sex w/ her/ is "interested in her sexually."
