Sol,
That wasn't my W. I just showed it to her so she would know I unstand how she felt.

I just spoke to W. I gave her a call and we spoke for over an hour.

My gut feeling was that she needs to see something from me.
I wasn't going to proceed with the wait and see technique.

I called her to suggest we go to MC. Her reply was~ It would be needed if we choose to go that route. OK, she's still uncertain.

Some key points of the convo were:

She still thinks I'm playing games. Said I would do some nice things then do some mean things. I didn't argue. That's her perception.
Her parents now, who were supporters of R, are now telling her she should move on. W showed her mom the email from me stating I
could be with someone who doesn;t want to be with me.
Her mom said I was playing games with that email. ????
Her mom also mentioed she should goto MC so she could have peace of mind that she tried everything


W did bring up the past again. I just listened, really listened hard.

I then spoke about what I wanted in a R, ~ M. I told her I will be a supportive partner. Told her I wasn't going to sit back, I was going to lead us through this horrible time. Told her of some past times she made me happy and that I wanted more of that.
I mentioned I called her today b/c I wanted to make sure I tried EVERYTHING to save the M so I wouldn't have regrets. I ended by asking her if anything I said was unclear. She said no.

She paused for a few moments and then said.............


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