Question about arguing

[gutwrenching]

Yes we have kids, two of them, 4 and almost 9. I know, I'm worried about the lack of date night too...ESPECIALLY since we both agree that NEVER doing them in the past hurt our M/R.

And you know, deep down, that may have added to the arguement this weekend. This past weekend was our best shot at doing a date night...and then this work social function (of hers) came up that we went too instead. And she keeps saying that she is supposed to be planning the next date night (not sure how that got in her brain, but I don't want to discourage it), but it hasn't happened.

So, you are very correct and I needed someone to confirm it for me, throw it my face, something like that. So I am going to ask her if she has a preference on Fri or Sat night (she leaves Sunday afternoon for trip...that I am nervous about), and not really give her an option to back out.

I like the buy a bottle of wine together for Fridays. She has recently developed an interest in wine much more so than ever before and picking one out for a Friday night is such a great idea...we can do with the kids/family movie night we do on Fridays. Perfect mix!