Ok you did it. There will be tension for a while. Not fun, but you can deal with it. Be mentally prepared for the spewing of hatred and nasty stuff and accusations of you being paranoid, etc, etc.

She isn't used to seeing you stand up for yourself, so her reactions could be all over the place

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11