Hey evolve35, it took me a minute, but I love the new name!
Alright everyone. I started by just editing my email down. Then I edited it down some more... and some more. Till there I am looking at the bare bones and thinking... "The people on the DB board are right. There is nothing in here I NEED to tell H."
D3's meds wear off before bedtime, so she is in no danger of an overdose. H can make the call on annother dose of meds without my "help."
H can figure out his class on his own, also without my "help."
The only thing I really need to say is "Hey, I miss you. Don't stay gone too long this time. I'm not ignoring you and the only reason I'm not calling you every night is because I'm afraid you will run away again."
But I can't say that. And in the end that is what my "business" email really said.
So I am not going to send it. It is hard, but I am backing away from the keyboard. Also called D's daycare and had them take out a thank you note for my b-day from her bag. It wasn't mushy, but it just seemed like a bad idea too.