CTH-I didn't make a big deal out of it with H because I understand it is a small thing. Same with the action figures. I don't mind if H buys them for S, but I am not going to. We have a really good parenting relationship, and I know I can't tell H what to do with S. I just ask and if he doesn't do it I want to keep a record here in case anything big happens. I understand H wants to be just a play guy and S's buddy. H has chosen to only see S for 26 hours every two weeks so I understand not wanting to battle with S. I am not really mad, but still learning what our roles are. H and I are still working together.

With work, everything is good. H has text me twice to make sure all is well. I do appreciate that because he would have to get S if anything happened, even if we were stuck somewhere for a while. All is well.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89