Should I say I love you? Part II

[hurtinhartford]

Judo,

What dynamic changed to make you think she would stop texting the 22 yr old? A few inquiring questions regarding the pagen ritual and a few pleasantries does not change a thing in your sitch. Take control and cut the DAMN texting off!!!! It is driving you crazy...there is no intel to be had and you are allowing her to be in control....why?

[JudoScott]

Im considering blocking his number from her phone. Thoughts?

[JudoScott]

OK I JUST BLOCKED HIS NUMBER FROM HER PHONE...

I amn freaking out I am a total wreck.

the consequences from this will be huge...

[gutwrenching]

Stop. Breathe. Man up.

So what if she blows up you...its either that or drive yourself to a funny farm dealing with the fact that she blatantly disrespects you. Stand up for yourself. Calmly don't put up with any crap behavior and quit being afraid. How could things get any worse than they are. You have nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain by enforcing this boundary.

[JudoScott]

its true she can't leave me again if she's already "gone"

[hurtinhartford]

Judo,

Gut is right! Your W is blantantly disrespecting you. You know she will find other means to see him...you have a made a move to be a head of her what is your plan to stay there? When do you see your L and file? And a question that I have been meaning to ask is why does she have the car? Take away her comfort

[ShockedOne]

Block the number? Shut off the phone!

[JudoScott]

She has the car because we have to share it to get son to school and back. Plus I was advised to let her keep it as is until after the hearing.

Should I text her that I blocked him or should I let her figure it out on her own?

[JudoScott]

She needs a phone she carts my son around. Theres zero chance I will leave her without a phone while shes caring for my son.

[ShockedOne]

Let her figure it out