cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[ClingingToHope]

You'll have to let a lot of the stuff in the last paragraph go. When I have the girls it is my responsibility to make sure they get their meds, their rest, their nutrition.

I don't mind emails saying the doctor says they need this or that or can you please do this or that. But I would resent being dictated to.

I'm not saying you dictated to him, but unless he is seriously endangering S then you'll have to pick your battles.

I don't think STBXW feeds the girls very well and she definitely isn't fostering a routine or lifestyle of exercise for them.

So on my time we go to the gym and gorge on fruit and only have french fries one day a week.