So what if she blows up you...its either that or drive yourself to a funny farm dealing with the fact that she blatantly disrespects you. Stand up for yourself. Calmly don't put up with any crap behavior and quit being afraid. How could things get any worse than they are. You have nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain by enforcing this boundary.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11