Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gutwrenching]

Why is it so difficult for her to trust again?
She is no more happier now then she was when she was with me.

In her mind, for 14 years she was disappointed...so trust is hard. Of course she is no happier and she probably hasn't dealt with that fact yet. She left to be in a fantasy land and is consumed with that fantasy...unwilling to let go that the grass has to be greener on the otherside. What I don't remember from you is if there was OM involved or not...cause that can be a factor too of course