I was able to lead and problem solve to create a good practice session last night with my W. She noted that she saw improvement. I think I'm going to need to be the leader with this dance project, as my W is preoccupied with her job and health problems.
She has decided to attend the smoking cessation classes at our fitness center. The first one is tonight. I didn't nag her about it, and was surprised when she brought it up. He coughing has increased, so hopefully she goes. She asked me if I would be upset if she didn't quit. I told her I would never be upset with her for trying. I think a support group is just what she needs, for this type of problem.
She's stressed about her new PT job. She's helping with bookkeeping for a disorganized restaurant owner. Hopefully, she will adapt to this. I'm not going to let her stress, pull me away from my activities. Her procrastination with job-hunting has contributed to this. If she wants a different job, she will need to take initiative. I'm glad that I have the fitness center and the dance studio as getaways to manage my own stress. I will keep up my routines.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
