What I took away from the meeting was that W has trust issues that a happy M can exist. I express my needs and wants to her and see could really express herself.
Silence was a lot of her resposes. I felt like I was performing tests to found out what she wants/needs.
She is still holding onto the past. She said she still loves me and porbably always will. I did validate her feelings and listened to her.
I think she is confused. She wants to give it a try but the past history of things is holding her back.
I am at my wits end. She was the one to contact me to talk. I thought she was ready to move forward. I need to move forward either with R or D.
Another issue is that she doesn't feel am physically attracted to her.
How can I show this to her with out it be pursuing? IDK Should I send flowers? should I ask her out on a date? I think she wants some attention now. Before when I was doing it, it pushed her further away. I stopped the chasing. This isn't the typical ~ WAW wanting to come back and work on things.
Her negativity is her worst enemy. I can't be around someone who is negative.
Not a good Monday to start the week.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
