Question about arguing

[gutwrenching]

What did we argue about...LOL...you know I look back and know what started it but not sure how it grew out of control and not sure what path we ended up on

It started with the fact we are in a rough period. My W (EA for a year) is having feelings for OM and having trouble dealing with them. I am having trouble, some days worse than others, dealing with the realization that those instant spark feelings are still there and they are stronger for OM than for me. So after what started out as a good evening with friends (W even told me later on in fight how much fun she had, how I looked at her with love in my eyes the way she had wanted for all those years), went downhill when she did one of those things that triggered my not dealing well know she has feelings for OM. She grabbed the iphone and consumed herself in phone instead of us spending some quality time together as we had previously talked about doing. And then the fights led to talks of OM and just got kind of ugly and then the flood of emotions hit W and she started crying about these feelings for OM that she can't shake even though she knows she shouldn't have them...

And as a side note, it just so happened to be the anniversay of the bomb from a year ago...