1) I look at the theme of the advice that is given and don't take the 2 x 4's personally...sum of the parts I guess. No one is going to DB perfectly and while the specifics of our sitch's are different, they all follow a common script.
2) I think the advice that the vets give and the questions that the vet's ask are the same questions that we ask ourselves but are afraid to answer because deep down inside we know what the answer is.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10