Dude, STOP with the hugging and kissing!! Stop doing nice things for her, stop with the little parties and all that crap.
You are blowing it. Once again, I see someone who comes here for advice, refuses to take it, had the golden opportunity of using the Shack and Awe technique, and they blew it. STOP IT!!
Each time you cave, anything you do becomes less and less effective until it really IS TOO LATE. You are only prolonging the process and playing right into her hands every time.
Just do what robx said and don't fall for her crying.
Oh, and she's "your best friend"....LMFAO!! Look what she did with the husband of her other "best friend."
