I believe a healthy marriage takes two people with healthy boundaries, good communication skills, an understanding that you have to work to keep attraction alive in a marriage, and so on.
Content aimed at actualizing LBS's self-esteem, detaching with empathy, acting according to principles rather than fear or anger, and building good, healthy boundaires has been targeted sometimes for censorship for some unknown reason.
That being the case, there is nothing for me to learn here that applies to me. I am not divorced and bitter/angry, do not need divorced guy dating advice, do not even understand some of what I would call "shockingly codependent" martyrdom, and so on.
Good luck to you all, but going over to the same place everyone else is going.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
