I must admit that it is truly baffling how your wife can go to Bible study with you and carry on this other life.....a true testement to the confusion she finds herself in.
You are doing great by remaining calm and focusing on you.....
Looking for that list too.....
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.