Hmmmm well here is a question to you all that may not of been asked before ? I have accepted an invitation to a 50 th party this Saturday. Today I was told that also attending will be the guy I had an affair with and his wife. My xh and his ow have declined. Do I still go ? It has been 6 years. They know I have said I would be their. My xh and the ow have declined the invite !