MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

Of course I don't want an open marriage, but I do want to save my marriage.I do not want D, I also have religious reasons.Should not come from me.
I feel like I am not ready for the ultimatum, and neither is he. If he is in MLC, which I suspect may be the case, then he might be still illogical. I am scared to apply pressure.
As of now anyways, it seems like the OW has backed off and is not too responsive anymore, and has been just offering friendship to him.
A reprieve? A chance for him to think? I hope. I feel like I have to be really careful these next few weeks.