putting my big girl panties on

[flowmom]

I do find that when I'm with him I find the growing connection very intense. I have a sense of not knowing what to do with those feelings, YKWIM?

Also, I'm realizing that my thread probably belongs in "Divorcing". Partly because I feel a bit nauseous looking at the Newcomer threads. I wish I had the strength to help the newcomers, but honestly I can't tell them what they want to hear. I so admire how City Girl and others helped me. All the advice I have to give is in my current sig line.