There may be hope for me! Two of the women I have dated actually said I was a good kisser! Which I never knew! And the third that I have kissed certainly didn't seem to avoid it.
Well, I STILL don't know about the chemistry of lack thereof with L-55. We went to see "Red" (a fun movie, by the way). A little touching during the movie, she didn't really pull back, but she didn't really encourage it, either. Then we ate, and talked. I did hold her hand for a while, there was a bit more arm touching and eye contact. And when we parted there was a hug. But I really get the feeling she's holing back. And in the long run, that's not going to to the trick. Oh, and she must be a bit old fashioned. I have paid for everything to this point.
As far as P-46, yesterday's date. She's worried about the distance, which I understand. But she is unusual, in a good way. I sent back that I'm willing to give things a try and see what happens. She has a bit of practicality in her, so she might not want to, but we will see.