thanks Rob, Had a great wkend with the kids,spent way too much money, but the kids had a blast! met the W at a neutral place to do the exchange. Told the W last week after the BS I went through with her daycare in regards to my gun and badge, I told her I would not pickup or drop my kids off at that daycare again. The stupidty and disrespect I was shown, I will not tolerate. I loaded the kids in her car and played with them a bit. I ended up buying my D a new swim suit, since W didnt pack anything, she was still in the one piece pink seedo zip up, it was so cute on her, and W said did she actually play in the water?(D is ok with baths but when it comes to pools, or lakes she gets freaked> I told the W I just worked with her on the water slides for about 30 minutes then she was fine.
I was hugging S while he was in the back seat, and W just stood next to her care door, I gave him a kiss, and walked back to my truck. Other than the question about D, I did not interact with W one bit. I was and am always happy and giddy with the kids, but she does not deserve any attention from me. It was the typical standing around waiting for me to ask or say something. If you have followed my sitch, it has been 3 months and Temp orders have not even been set. We were suppose to be in court tomorrow, but I spent the night back and forth with my L. The W was asking a huge amount for child support which I cant afford, and we were back and forth all night but finally came to an agreement for now, its a fraction of what she asked for. It will be temp for 3 months and then we will revisit it. I told my L I am tired of bickering and this back and forth crap, want to be done. So for the next three months I will still be married and will probably deal with her button pushing. But at least we will have schedule in place and I will know when I have my kids. IF she plays with that, then she violates the orders going forward.
