Good points thanks, I would like to think she just wasn't thinking at all during the A but anyways I am already noticing some"baby steps" with my 180s I am taking them. Lightly I'm at the emotional point that I can handle not initiating contact and avavoiding R talk.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10