I have been reading this thread and feeling a little slutty, cuz I don't see anything wrong with kissing on the first date. I would hate to date a guy several times then find out he was a bad kisser. I like getting physical, and I don't see any harm in doing so in the beginning, to make sure the chemistry is there.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn