My first boyfriend took 4 months to kiss me, my second one took 6 weeks (3 dates) to kiss me...but hey that was high school! There were a few guys I made out with in college that I never went out on a 'date' with...just hung out at a party together and went from there, or walked home from the bar together...
I kissed vomit guy on the first date but the refs were throwing flags there right and left and I chose to ignore them, so my fault entirely! Haven't kissed anyone else on the first date yet but didn't really want to...Golf Guy and I kissed on our second date, but it was 5 months after our first date! (Wow I am a slow mover). Saturday will be our third date (two months after our second date) so we shall se what that brings...
I never really thought about how much I enjoyed hugging/kissing/spooning, etc until after my exH left...now it sucks because I am so wired for that, but I have to WANT to kiss you, and have not met that many guys who fit the bill...