You should definately go to court on this. Think of it as fighting for the only good thing out of this marriage...your children. Do it for them. Dont roll over and make things easy for her. She needs to feel the consequences of her behavior.

Robx is right about the inlaws, no matter how moral they are they always want to keep thier daughter in thier lives.

Man, I'd be out for blood if I was in your place. You're a btter man than me.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08