It really sounds like you and H are doing well, and getting the new place is what he needed to grow up a little. Even wanting to look more mature. Lol I don't know what to think about the hair, but at least he is trying. It is really slow, but the is some improvement and if you really look at the last year, it is awesome. Be patient and yet be aware. Definitely do your research on MC and even try out the ones you like so when the time comes, you are ready.
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