I think the important things is to listen to yourself, deal with your stuff, and stay in the present. That means being able to let go of the past and not let it control you. That also means being able to be with a person and recognize your thoughts and feelings and reactions without fast-forwarding to the future, just paying attention to NOW.
Very good advise. I went out with G2 yesterday. He is very smoooochhy and loving. It is very confusing. I have told him that there will be no sleeping together anymore ( as we are not in a relationship ).He seems cool with this. well for now ! DanceQueen recommended a book to me ( in posts that was cleansed ) and it is great.
