All of you, I have another question. For those of you who have been successful in repairing the HD/LD heartache, how long did you wait before your LD partner came around a bit?
My partner and I have reunited for about 5 weeks. I KNOW this isn't much and I thought, because the last intimacy we had was so fraught with pain and anxiety, that I wouldn't want sex again in forever (wrong).
There has been some positive movement. She is much more likely to give me something akin to a 'real kiss' vs. 'grandma kisses'. There is touch of my breasts and allowing me to touch her, while she reassures me this is ok.
But, I'm just curious and I promise I won't set this as my own time line, when things started improving slightly, how long before you saw real change in the frequency and passion of real sex?
