Sandycay, the guy likes you! They contact us when they like us! He is being a gentleman. Especially since you were doing happy hour and not some romantic-y kind of date.
Even my exH didn't make any physical move on the first date and I was the one to initiate kissing on the second date.
But when the men don't say anything to us like they think we are pretty/ cute, or like our eyes, or don't even pat us on the arm or scoot next to us, it can make us feel like you aren't attracted to us!
As for compliments about our profile pics-- I like hearing them, sure! But I prefer "you have a beautiful smile" or "you have gorgeous eyes" or "red is your color!" or "you look very pretty" OVER "you are smokin' hot" or "sexy" or some other crass comment. Save that for the makin' out conversation!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
