I just made the realization that I am going to be a fantastic partner to someone someday. I can't believe how much I have learned about myself in the past few months... looking forward to my future. At this point, I suspect I am the only one that has made this significant of progress since I have not been leaning on someone else to make me feel good. I can't live with the same H anymore, I am differentiating (for those that have read Passionate Marriage...).

Maybe he will figure some of this out before it is too late and maybe he won't... I am just happy I have!!!

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."