I'm still reading but half heartedly. I am ready to let him go. I don't care what the 'right' thing to do anymore. I'm not interested in saving my marriage anymore. Is that giving up? Probably. But it's just not in me anymore. I'm tired of being the only hurt one, the only confused one, the only one who cares. I give much credit to those who are in it for the long haul, but I get how he felt now... He was tired of the work it takes to make a marriage work, and so am I.

I thank everyone who helped, and I'll still read and hope or you all, but I'm done. Thanks to everyone and good luck!

Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September