The point is actually for me. I am not using it as a tool to get him back. It won't work, I know that. I need to ask forgiveness for me as I work toward moving on, getting stronger and looking forward to a brighter future with or without H. I don't know that now is the right time though. I would like it to be when his mind is most likely to be open to forgiveness... not necessarily a R. I think these are two different things.

But, as far as continuing to DB, I agree actions are stronger than words.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."