My concerns - his wife being in same house , his no hurry for financial sorting with wife , the fact he was hapy for me to split bill !
A guy who is really done will move heaven and earth to NOT live with STBXW, IME. Financial sorting, yes that can take time...a LOOOONG time if they're sharing a home. Splitting bill: that can be due to a lot of reasons, but none of them are reasons that would attract me to a man. I totally like to treat a guy and will reciprocate given a chance...but why wouldn't a guy take advantage of a chance to treat you when he's asked you out on a date? The guy who let me go dutch on the first date had a lot of issues with feeling bitter about paying spousal support and was emotionally not very giving (we ended up dating for 5 weeks). I think these things are often symbolic.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
