So I couldn't hold it in any longer. I told my H yesterday what I knew. He never confirmed or denied, just said that wasn't the issue, that's not why we have problems. I said trust is a HUGE problem. I told him I wanted a divorce now because I refused to be in a relationship with someone who was that deceitful. He said fine, goodbye. An hour later he calls back and says he needs my mailing address because I have to co-sign for his student loan. WTF? I said I'm not co signing anything. Also told him I am keeping both the dogs. He said why would he want to be married to someone who wanted to destroy him anyways and hung up. 30 minutes later he texts me, asking if he bought me a puppy would I consider giving him one of the dogs. Then he calls. We talk again, he says he wants to come here, talk about us, hopes that we can have a fun weekend together. He says divorce isn't a black or white issue for him, it's more difficult than that and we need to talk. What the hell is going on? He is all over the place. Just as I am ready to move on he gives me a glimmer of hope. I hold no stock in it now. This relationship is not a relationship any longer, just a bunch of smoke screens.