It is true that our kids feed off of our emotions...your DS needs to see you get strong so that he will feel safe and confident in at least one parent!
If you need to file those papers to help you financially and give you some peace of mind...then do it! You've been talking about it for quite some time now!
Does the school know who is allowed to pick up DS and who isn't?
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing