Mystik, I think you need to file. Don't look at it as kicking him while he's down because that's not what you're trying to do. Look at it as just business, clearly he doesn't want to be married anymore (as much as that hurts, I know) and you need to begin working on getting yourself in a better place. One way to do that may be to start the divorce.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness
