Mystik, know that I'm saying the following with the utmost respect and love. Your DS is young and he models what he sees. Part of the reason that DS is feeling this way is that you are modeling jealousy, insecurity, pain, etc. in every action that you have with your H. Think about it. So many times at the pick/drop off, he ends up being the grown up telling you, it's going to be ok or don't cry, mommy.
I'm not telling you this to be mean but to hopefully make you think. It's time to see what you're doing from DS's point of view. What kind of mom to you want him to remember? It's time to get yourself in a better place if not for you, for him.
