You can't forget that this is a rollercoaster ride. There will be times you are convinced he's coming around, only to be proved absolutely wrong the next week. Detaching helps ride those ups and downs so that you don't get your hopes too high during the good times and you don't get too down when things go badly. Your sitch sounds a lot like mine shortly post-bomb. H was still around a lot and things often seemed like normal. But their mind is still messed up. Don't forget, this is not a sprint but a marathon. You are still very new to this. It often takes years, not months. Not trying to get you down, but it's important to keep a realistic outlook. If it happens sooner great. But mentally be prepared to be in this for the long haul. You sound strong and I'm sure you'll be OK. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
