I have been following your current situation and have read many posts of yours in the past. You are incredibly resilient, strong, kind, and wise. I thought about posting to you before November 5th, but didn't know what to say. I am very interested to see that you have resolved to continue DB'ing.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
...if we become "THE WOMAN ONLY A FOOL WOULD LEAVE" it opens their eyes to the truth and reality. I do believe that it buys us time for possibilities that otherwise would not happen.
This is a good reminder to everyone. A 20 lb. turkey takes longer to roast than a 5 lb. turkey, if you get what I mean.
It seems very odd that your H would file for D again but not show up to the court date 2 months later. It seems as though your H can't move toward you but also can't move away from you. Is he indecisive in other areas of his life? Is this just cake-eating?
Do you have any idea why H can't seem to cross that imaginary line toward you? In my situation I think the road block is my XH's BMF who is an unethical person, but I am learning that there obviously is something inside my XH that causes him to be close to someone like that.
In your situation I would think that more than enough time has passed for your H to see the "real OW". Do you have any idea what it is inside your H that prevents him from moving toward you?
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P.S. Cas, sorry for the hijack, but this conversation is something that I think we are all interested in.
