Should I stay, or should I go now?

[WithoutANet]

I'm sitting on the fence here. What has put everything in perspective for me has been talking to my ex-H. He is tha father of my S9, so we have the opportunity to speak on a regular basis. I was the WAS in that marriage, and I pretty much crushed him when I left. But he treats me better, with more compassion than H. There's just no denying how distant and cold H has become. I don't know if I want to deal with it anymore.

At what point do you say, this is it, I don't want to play anymore?

I just don't know that Ilove the man he has become.