My wife admitted she had an affair with a married man, but she won't reveal who the OM is. She says it was over 18 months ago, and that there is no need to drag it up. I have read many different posts on here about this same topic, and I am wondering is it worth trying to find out, or just let it go. We are seperated and live in different houses about 10 miles apart, so I have no access to try to find anything out. I was wondering what others on here have experienced regarding a similiar sitch. Thanks.