Gardener,

God be with you.

On the subject of your journey and the pain you endured to get to this point, I'll share something I told a close friend of mine very recently:
It is not in times of pleasure or contentment that we truly grow in character or wisdom but in times of pain. Growth is painful.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.