We went to friends to make the trip plans, H was nodding all along, right up to the time to put his name on a ticket, then he said he didn't know if he was going. We didn't finalize anything, waiting until everyone gets back from weekend trips and will regroup again. Bummed.
H was wishywashy about even going on the trip this weekend, he said he should stay home and make money. The trip he is on this weekend is all reimbursable, but he didn't have 'front' money to go. I gave him money and a credit card for the trip.
I went with the Race Team to the banquet last night, my nephew finished the season Top 5, huge trophy! Of all things, my night capped off by a lady who cornered me to talk about problems she had with her horses - that she keeps at ows. She wants to come to me for lessons and help with her horses. It was hard to listen to her talk about how ow talks about my H. ow obviously is not done trying to dig her fangs into my H, so I give my H extra credit for 'finding his way back' while she is still luring him. Such a reminder not to get complacement!
My night ended with a huge hug - from the lady that wants help!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.