Mila,

Just wanted to say you sound strong and confident, and eager to get out there and spread your wings some. Good for you! It is also encouraging that your H is considering some problems of his own he need to face and deal with.

Isn't it strange looking somewhat excitedly at starting over at our age? I was so terrified at first, but now . . . .only see the possibilities.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011