Just a thought. I understand a 16 yo boy being angry, confused and acting out. They do that even when nothing is going on. Is there someone in his life, a coach, best friend's Dad, grandfather, uncle, sister's boyfriend, etc. Someone on an unofficial basis that he could feel comfortable talking to?
He may be very uncomfortable sharing his inner fears, etc with a stranger, but there may be someone out there, a male, that he is comfortable enough with to take the Male role here, since his Dad is tied up, so to speak.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011